Tuesday, December 25, 2018

The Friend Zone Nightmare That Men Fear


Me and my friends were hanging out last night and one of my friends brought a girl that he was trying to hook up with. Everything was going smooth but we noticed that the girl was treated him more like a friend, rather than a potential lover. He wasn't able to recognize that he was in the friend zone.

So what is this dreaded Friend Zone?

Its kind of funny actually, but essential what it means is when a girl puts the man in a certain category -- the category of thinking of him like a friend, rather than a sexual symbol that she could potentially date.

Why does this happen?

From my experience this happens because of 3 reasons:

1. The guy took too long to make a move on the girl and she lost interest in him,
 
2. The girl was never really into him and he got the wrong attraction signals and fell into the friend zone trap

3. The guy never played the romantic part. The girl didn't even know that the guy liked her so she could never feel anything for him.

These types of things will almost guarantee that a guy will fall into the friend zone and the girl will not find him attractive enough to date.

And I saw all of these things with my friend. He simply did not recognize that he was in the friend zone.

So now he has the hard task of trying get out of it, but that is  not easy in and of itself.

The buddy zone signifies to a state of affairs the place there is a mismatch in romantic emotions between two individuals. For example, sometimes this is a sexual magnetism misfire, the place one person is thinking about romance while the opposite wants to just be pals.

 At different occasions, the friends are already romantically concerned  (friends-with-advantages), however there's a commitment mismatch, where only one individual wants a "relationship" as a dedicated lover.

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